Embracing Gaps for Mental Wellness

In the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, our schedules often fill to the brim with parties, shopping, and family gatherings. While these activities can be joyous, they can also lead to overwhelming stress and burnout. Enter the concept of “holiday unplanning,” a refreshing approach that encourages intentionally leaving gaps in your holiday calendar for spontaneous relaxation or adventure. This practice not only promotes a healthier mindset but can also lead to deeper connections with loved ones and self.

The Case for Unplanning
As the holidays approach, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of events. The pressure to attend every gathering, buy the perfect gifts, and create memorable experiences can quickly overshadow the true essence of the season. By embracing the idea of unplanning, you can carve out precious moments that allow for rest and rejuvenation. These gaps in your schedule provide a necessary counterbalance to the frenetic pace of holiday life, fostering a more mindful and enjoyable experience.

One of the key benefits of unplanning is its positive impact on mental health. Studies have shown that downtime is crucial for our well-being. Allowing yourself the freedom to relax can reduce anxiety, improve mood, and enhance creativity. When you leave space in your schedule, you create opportunities for spontaneous activities that can lead to new experiences. Whether it’s a leisurely walk in a winter wonderland or an impromptu movie night at home, these moments can infuse joy into your holiday season.

Cultivating Mindfulness Through Unplanned Moments
When we rush from one obligation to the next, we often forget to savor the little moments that bring us joy. Holiday unplanning encourages mindfulness, a practice rooted in being present and fully engaged in the moment. By intentionally leaving gaps in your schedule, you give yourself the chance to pause, reflect, and appreciate the beauty of the season.

For example, instead of filling every weekend with events, consider setting aside a day for quiet reflection. Perhaps you can light a candle, enjoy a warm drink, and read a book that’s been on your list for ages. This simple act of slowing down allows you to reconnect with yourself, promoting a sense of calm amidst the chaos.

Spontaneity: The Gift of Adventure
Unplanned time opens the door to spontaneity, allowing you to embrace adventures as they arise. Rather than adhering to a rigid itinerary, you can follow your whims and explore new activities that pique your interest. This spontaneity can lead to memorable experiences that strengthen bonds with family and friends.

Imagine receiving an unexpected invitation to go ice skating or discovering a local holiday market. With unplanned time in your schedule, you can seize these opportunities without the stress of rearranging prior commitments. The joy of spontaneity not only enriches your holiday experience but also creates lasting memories that you’ll cherish long after the season ends.

Setting Boundaries for a Balanced Holiday
Incorporating unplanned time into your holiday schedule requires setting boundaries around commitments. This can be challenging, especially when friends and family expect your presence at various gatherings. However, learning to say “no” can be liberating and essential for your mental health.

Start by assessing your current schedule. Identify events that genuinely bring you joy and those that feel obligatory. By prioritizing the former and eliminating the latter, you’ll create space for unplanned moments that foster relaxation and adventure. Communicate your intentions to loved ones, explaining that you’re focusing on quality time rather than quantity this holiday season. Most will appreciate your honesty and may even find inspiration to embrace unplanning themselves.

Embracing the Unexpected
While unplanning emphasizes the importance of gaps in your schedule, it also invites a spirit of flexibility. Life is inherently unpredictable, and the holidays often come with their own set of surprises. Embracing this unpredictability can enhance your holiday experience, allowing you to adapt and find joy in unexpected situations.

For instance, if a planned gathering falls through, view it as an opportunity rather than a disappointment. Use the extra time to indulge in a favorite hobby, catch up with a friend, or simply enjoy some solitude. These unanticipated moments can lead to delightful discoveries and a renewed appreciation for the season.

Connecting with Loved Ones
Unplanning also opens the door for deeper connections with family and friends. With fewer scheduled commitments, you’ll have the time to
engage in meaningful conversations or enjoy shared experiences without the pressure of a ticking clock.

This can strengthen your relationships and create a more supportive environment during the often stressful holiday season.

Consider inviting loved ones to join you in unplanned activities. A spontaneous game night or a cozy movie marathon can bring everyone together without the constraints of a formal gathering. These relaxed settings allow for authentic interactions and the creation of shared memories that enhance your holiday spirit.

A Holistic Approach to Holiday Joy
Ultimately, holiday unplanning is about embracing a more holistic approach to the season. By leaving intentional gaps in your schedule, you prioritize your mental health and well-being. This practice encourages mindfulness, spontaneity, and deeper connections with those you care about.

As you navigate the holiday season, remember that it’s okay to step back and take a breather. Embrace the beauty of unplanned moments, allowing them to enrich your experiences and bring a sense of joy to your celebrations. This holiday season, give yourself the gift of unplanning—a chance to reconnect with yourself and those around you in a way that feels genuine and fulfilling.

In a world that often glorifies busyness, choosing to unplan can feel revolutionary. By intentionally crafting space in your holiday schedule, you open the door to relaxation, adventure, and, ultimately, a more meaningful celebration. As the year draws to a close, consider how these unplanned moments can serve not just as a counterbalance to holiday chaos, but as a reminder to savor the present, cultivate joy, and cherish the connections that truly matter.

Inside the 1905 Georgian Revival of Rosa Morgan and Ed Gearke

By: Megan Williams / Photos by: Ashlee Glen

If I do have a philosophy, it is best expressed by Henry David Thoreau: ‘If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.’ That is my credo. It is absolutely true. It is my whole life summed up.” – Tasha Tudor

Rosa Morgan and Ed Gearke move with intention throughout their home. A 1905 Georgian Revival in the historic Diamond Hill district, the brick house on a hill is a time capsule in and of itself. The looming Doric columns, original slate roof, and six over nine double hung windows greet passersby and invite them to pause—to take in the symmetry and order of the facade that rises well above street level. Those acquainted with the owners of the home, however, who are invited to peer around the corners into the verdant gardens or cross under the columned portico and through the wide front door, would see a different type of order—one that is tethered to ease, curiosity, and the rhythms of the natural world.

“Many years ago, I’d visited Monticello and Mount Vernon and was taken with the natural beauty of the state,” Morgan recalled. “We had never even been to Lynchburg, but we shipped all our earthly possessions here because it was centrally located. Of course, I’d researched it as a possible city to live in because we loved its history, architecture, and the four seasons—something you don’t get in Texas.”

Morgan and Gearke moved into the home on Madison Street in 2022 and immediately set to work, transforming the historic house into a space that supported their creative endeavors. Morgan is a writer, who has published two historical fiction novels and is currently working on a third.

Gearke is a pastel artist and historian.

“Together, we create miniature houses; so far a Georgian, Tudor, Victorian, and a castle,” Morgan said. “Last Christmas, our house was on the Diamond Hill holiday tour, where we had a miniature house displayed in each room.”

On the first day in their new home, Morgan remembers Gearke pulling up carpets and she ripping off wallpaper.

“We’re both hard workers and passionate about creating a home that reflects our aesthetics,” she said. “The kitchen was the first big project. I’m not a purist, but I do like to capture the old-fashioned feel of the place.

That means not having a dishwasher and using a 1940s toaster that you must manually flip the bread. We were pleased to discover the original wood floors beneath two layers of linoleum.”

Since moving in, two ceilings have collapsed—one of the more challenging aspects of owning an older home.

“The ceiling in our ‘summer parlor’ fell in in May,” Morgan recounted. “The chandelier barely survived. We wouldn’t have redone this room so soon, but the ceiling forced our hand.”

Despite the setbacks, Morgan and Gearke have approached the revitalization of their home with tenacity, honoring the original pieces they can preserve and infusing details from their travels and work.

“As temporary caretakers of the house, we feel a responsibility to care and improve it,” she said. “I was thrilled when one day, Ed yelled up from the coal bin in the cellar, ‘Guess what I found?’ It was the original overmantel mirror to the dining room! Returning it to its original place just felt like the right thing to do. We’re also lucky to have an Italian sideboard that is original to the house.”

In the winter, the original dining room features are accompanied by natural elements brought in from the backyard gardens.

“We gather natural materials to create a Yule Log each year,” Morgan said. “We start our celebrations on the winter solstice. We light the first candle, have readings, and open a gift each day. The winter solstice is so important because it slows down the holiday. It’s a time where you know that spring is going to come.”

Morgan and Gearke also make orange pomanders—dried oranges studded with cloves—each year as a natural means of decorating for solstice and the holidays. Their trees and greens are adorned with Victorian ornaments Morgan has made over the years. And even their holiday cards are handmade, depicting scenes that are special from Morgan’s memory—her former home in Galveston, Texas; Gearke dressed as Santa Claus where he was Santa in the Houston and Galveston area for 17 years; and so on.

Apart from the more holiday-centric decor brought out just for the winter months, Morgan and Gearke’s home is peppered with conversation-starters.

There’s the signed René Magritte print over the mantle in the summer parlor, which Morgan proudly bought for a song in a thrift store years ago. There are pastel and ink artworks throughout the home created by Gearke and Morgan, respectively. And there’s the sun-drenched solarium just off Morgan’s writing room where herbs are collected, dried, and gathered for future tinctures and concoctions.

“We’re both gardeners and so we’ve created a formal parterre with brick generously given to us from several neighbors,” Morgan explained. “My aim is to have cutting flowers every season of the year. We have raised beds with vegetables and herbs, a shade garden, and we added a gazebo. As an herbalist, I dry the herbs in the solarium, and in my herbarium, I process them into teas, tinctures, and balms. I study the culinary, medicinal, and magical lore of herbs and often use that information in my novels.”

As Morgan and Gearke move about their home, taking a tea break in the winter parlor for conversation and a slice of the fruitcake that Gearke makes every year for Yuletide, they give no indication of “slowing down,” as is the phrase uttered as one enters retirement years. Rather, you get the sense that they are just ramping up—indulging in their curiosities, picking up projects that fuel them intellectually or creatively, and, as Thoreau said, advancing in the direction of their dreams.

“I’m 65 and Ed is 81 and sometimes at the end of the day, we are so bone-tired from working, we fall into bed,” Morgan said. “After the second ceiling fell, I asked Ed through tears, ‘Is it worth it?’ ‘Yes!’ he said. ‘Is it tea time yet?””

How to Simplify Your Life Before Moving into a Smaller Home or Senior Living Community

You’ve built a home full of memories over the years, including items that tell the story of your life. But now, as you prepare to enter the next exciting phase—whether it’s a smaller home in a Lynchburg neighborhood, a retirement community, or an independent living option—comes the challenge of downsizing.

Downsizing can feel like a daunting process, often complicated by emotions and sentimentality, but it can also be an opportunity to simplify your life and make room for the things that matter most. Let’s dive into practical tips to help you declutter, organize and preserve the essentials as you move into this exciting new chapter.

Start Early & Take Your Time

Downsizing is not something you want to rush. Start the process well ahead of your planned move, giving yourself the time and space to thoughtfully consider each item. Go room by room, starting with spaces that aren’t used daily, like basements, attics or storage rooms.

Set small goals, such as clearing out a closet over a weekend, tackling a single drawer each day or sifting through items on a single shelf one afternoon. This helps make the task more manageable and reduces the emotional strain of letting go of certain items.

“Retirees often face emotional challenges such as letting go of a home full of memories, dealing with the loss of space and belongings, and fear of change or losing independence,” said Chapman. “To cope, they can take it step by step—breaking the process into manageable tasks can make it feel less overwhelming. They can also involve family and friends by sharing memories and the downsizing process with loved ones.”

Prioritize What You Use & Love

When you’re moving into a smaller space, every item should have a purpose. Ask yourself, “Do I need this? Does it bring me joy? Will it fit into my new life?” Keep only the essentials and the items that hold significant sentimental value.

For things like duplicate kitchenware, out-of-date electronics or old clothes, consider donating them to a local charity or passing them on to friends and family. It’s also a great way to share family heirlooms with the next generation—just be sure to ask first and don’t take it personally if certain items aren’t claimed.

Make Yourself a “Maybe” Box

Letting go of possessions, especially ones with emotional ties, is hard. Create a “maybe” box in which you place items you’re unsure about whether to keep, toss or give away. Once they’re in the box, set it aside for a month. If, after that time has passed, you haven’t needed or missed the items inside, “maybe” it might be time to let some of them go.

Digitize Documents & Photos

Memories are priceless, but physical items like photos, letters and documents can take up significant space. Consider scanning your photos and important papers to create digital copies that can be stored securely. This way, you can keep the memories without the clutter. Plus, you can easily share these digital files with family members.

Take Stock of Your New Space

Before moving into your new home or senior living community, get exact measurements of your new rooms and storage spaces. This will help you determine what larger pieces of furniture will fit and prevent the disappointment of trying to bring too much. It’s better to know ahead of time whether that beloved dining table will fit in your new dining area.

Get Help from Those You Love

Downsizing doesn’t have to be a solo mission. Invite family members or friends to help with sorting, organizing, and making decisions.
They can offer a fresh perspective on items and help you stay motivated. Plus, downsizing together can be a bonding experience—reminiscing over old photos or special keepsakes.

Keep the Big Picture in Mind

As you declutter and streamline your belongings, it’s important to stay focused on your ultimate goal: simplifying your life and making it easier to enjoy your new space. Every item you decide to keep or discard should support your future lifestyle. Moving into a smaller home or community offers the freedom to focus on activities, relationships and experiences that bring joy, rather than being weighed down by unnecessary possessions.

Whether you’re moving to a cozy new home or joining a retirement community, downsizing is the first step toward a simpler, more carefree lifestyle. Take your time, approach it with intention, and enjoy the process of creating space for your next horizon.

ASK THE EXPERT

When is the best time for individuals or couples to start thinking about downsizing?

“The best time for individuals or couples to start thinking about downsizing is ideally a few years before retirement, or when maintaining their current home starts to feel overwhelming. It’s helpful to plan ahead, allowing time to research options and transition at their own pace. Waiting too long can add stress, especially if health concerns arise unexpectedly. Downsizing early also provides the opportunity to enjoy a simpler lifestyle and focus on activities they love without the burden of a large home.”
– Trish Chapman, Director of Marketing, Westminster Canterbury Lynchburg

Fine Art Photography and Ethereal Self Portraiture

By: Emeri Glen | Photos by: Ashlee Glen

Lillian Merritt works in avenues of redemption, but this may not be evident upon first glancing at her work. Filled with beautifully rich tones, breathtaking scenery, and packed with ample opportunity for different interpretations, Merritt’s fine art photography exists to create shared meaning.

Merritt grew up in the small military town of Eden, Oklahoma, with an older sister, two scientifically inclined parents, and a love for the arts. At the surprisingly young age of two, Merritt was already learning ballet at a studio, and it was at this establishment that she was first exposed to photography at the age of eleven.

For Merritt, photography just clicked.

“I was just like, this is it. This is what I [want to] do long-term,” she said.

Merritt began to explore the different avenues of photography and eventually landed on self-portraiture with a twist; she added the component of fine art-style post-editing to create something ethereal.

“I instantly fell into this other-worldly, fanciful style,” she remembered. “I’d never seen it anywhere before.”

Encouraged by her ballet studio’s photographer and an online teacher (who Merritt has since met and worked with), Merritt began to flourish in her newfound venture.

In an almost eerie way, Merritt’s pieces often have subtle connections to her childhood. One piece, “Jadis,” is based off of the popular Chronicles of Narnia book series. The picture portrays a white dress-clad Merritt trapped and suspended behind a fractured pane of ice. The whole piece is a chilling blue, much like the environment of The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe. Merritt excitedly reminisced about how she grew up listening to her mother read the books in the series.

“The books are amazing. … Edmund is my favorite,” she said. “There is a special place in my heart for people who are like the black sheep, the people who need extra love and saving.”

Merritt and her family have lived in the Lynchburg area since 2015, and it was around this time that she truly began to invest in her natural talent.

By 2017, Merritt had gained the opportunity to send her art to a gallery in The Louvre. While she wasn’t able to travel with her art that year, she has since visited France, England, several states in the U.S. (her favorite is Montana), and several other countries. On each trip, she’s made sure to add to her photo reserves.

Merritt’s artistic process begins with coming up with a theme, envisioning what she wants to communicate through her art, packing up her tripod, camera, and any props that she may need, and setting off for her shoot location. After the shoot, which typically takes thirty minutes or so, Merritt heads back to her studio and resizes her photos to fit her standard template. Then comes the fun part, where Merritt plays with light and magic in the colors and landscape of her photos.

When she’s not creating with her camera and laptop, working her day job, seeking out new shoot locations, or choreographing for a production, Merritt is planning her next steps. Her love for “black sheep” and the Edmunds of the world has played a part in her vision for redeeming things very near and dear to her heart: Old abandoned homes.

“I’ve always loved the surrealness about abandoned properties,” she said. “I’ve always wanted to restore them. They need—they deserve—a second chance at life.”

Merritt hopes to start a nonprofit in the near future where she redeems these old homes (she’s already purchased her first and is ecstatic) and creates an environment for other artists to thrive and grow in. Its name? “Restory.”

To contact or learn more about Merritt and the stories that she tells through her work, visit her website (www.strengthofatlantis.com) or
Instagram account (@strengthofatlantis).

A Step-by-Step Guide to Assembling Your Own Holiday Wreath with Foraged Materials

reating your own holiday wreath is a delightful way to bring the spirit of the season into your home. Using foraged materials not only adds a personal touch but also connects you with the natural beauty of your surroundings. In Lynchburg, Virginia, the months of November and December offer a variety of options for gathering materials that can elevate your wreath-making experience.

Gather Your Materials
To start, you’ll want to gather your materials. Venture outdoors, perhaps on a brisk afternoon, to explore local parks, gardens, or even your own backyard. Look for evergreen branches, such as pine, cedar, or fir, which can serve as the base for your wreath. These hardy evergreens retain their color and scent throughout the winter months, creating a lush foundation. You can also find holly branches, with their bright red berries adding a festive pop of color. Additionally, consider foraging for other elements like magnolia leaves or even twigs and dried grasses that can provide texture and interest to your design.

Prepare Your Workspace
Once you’ve gathered your materials, the next step is to prepare your workspace. Choose a flat surface where you can comfortably work. Lay out your foraged items so that you can easily see and select what you’d like to use. If you have a wire frame, this can be an excellent base for your wreath. However, if you prefer a more natural look, you can simply bind your materials together with floral wire or twine. Make sure to have scissors or pruning shears on hand for cutting branches to your desired length.

Build the Base
Starting with your evergreen branches, create a circular shape by overlapping the stems. Begin at the top of your frame and work your way around, securing each layer with floral wire or twine. This overlapping technique not only provides stability but also creates a fuller appearance. As you build the wreath, take a moment to step back and assess the overall look. Adjust the placement of the branches to achieve a balanced and harmonious design.

Add Decorative Elements
Once the base is established, it’s time to add your decorative elements. Integrating holly branches adds visual interest and contrast. Carefully position these among the evergreen, ensuring they are evenly distributed for a cohesive appearance. If you’ve gathered other materials like pinecones or dried citrus slices, these can also be added at this stage. For a rustic feel, you might even consider incorporating bits of burlap or ribbon. Layering these elements will enhance the wreath’s texture and depth, making it a truly unique creation.

After you’ve arranged all the materials to your liking, secure any loose elements with additional floral wire or hot glue. This step is crucial, especially if you plan to hang your wreath on a door where it may be subjected to movement from wind or visitors. Take the time to ensure everything is firmly attached, so your creation will withstand the holiday season.

Display and Enjoy
Once your wreath is complete, think about how you would like to display it. A simple nail can work wonders for hanging but consider using a decorative hook or a ribbon that complements the colors in your wreath for a more polished look. The choice of a hanging method can add another layer of personalization to your project. A door wreath greets guests and family, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere.

As you admire your handiwork, consider the natural and seasonal beauty reflected in your creation. This wreath is more than a decorative item; it’s a celebration of the local landscape and a reminder of the connections we share with nature. Using foraged materials not only enriches your wreath but also fosters a deeper appreciation for your surroundings and the beauty that can be found even in the winter months.

In the spirit of the holidays, think about how this wreath can be a symbol of gratitude. Each element you’ve collected holds a story, whether it’s the quiet strength of an evergreen or the vibrant cheer of holly berries. This connection can serve as a reminder of the importance of community and nature in our lives. As you hang your wreath, reflect on the joy of creating something unique and meaningful, fostering a sense of mindfulness during a busy season.

Ultimately, assembling your own holiday wreath using foraged materials allows for creativity, sustainability, and a personal touch that store-bought decorations can rarely match. This process not only provides a satisfying activity but also cultivates a deeper connection with the world around you. The resulting wreath becomes a testament to the beauty of nature in its raw form, offering warmth and cheer to your home during the holiday season. Embrace the experience of crafting, and let your wreath serve as a cherished reminder of the joys found in both nature and creativity.

What to Look For

Look for these materials to complete your wreath

• Evergreen Branches: Look for pine, cedar, and fir. These varieties are abundant and provide a lush base for your wreath.
• Holly: The glossy leaves and bright red berries of holly add a festive touch and are easily found in wooded areas.
• Magnolia Leaves: These large, leathery leaves provide an elegant texture and can be foraged from local magnolia trees.
• Pinecones: Collect fallen pinecones from the ground. They add a rustic element and can be used whole or broken apart for embellishment.
• Dried Grasses: Look for ornamental grasses or other dried varieties. They can add height and interest to your design.
• Berries: In addition to holly, you may find other berry-producing plants like winterberry, juniper, or sumac, which can add vibrant color.
• Twigs and Branches: Thin twigs can be used to create a natural frame or added for texture. Birch twigs, with their stunning white and black texture, would be particularly beautiful.
• Dried Citrus Slices: While not foraged, if you have leftover citrus fruits, drying slices of oranges or lemons can add a beautiful pop of color and fragrance.

Navigating the complexities of estate planning can be especially challenging for blended families, where multiple sets of children, previous marriages, and varied financial situations come into play. Effective estate planning in this context is not merely a matter of distributing assets; it involves fostering family harmony, ensuring that all parties feel valued, and addressing the unique dynamics that blended families present. This article will explore the key considerations and strategies that blended families should keep in mind as they embark on the estate planning process.

Understanding Blended Families
Blended families typically consist of one or both partners having children from previous relationships. These families can take various forms, including stepfamilies, cohabiting families, or families formed through remarriage. The complexity arises from the need to balance the interests of biological children with those of stepchildren, as well as the partners’ own wishes and financial obligations. The relationships within blended families can be sensitive and sometimes fraught with tension, making clear communication and careful planning essential.

“Many factors can contribute to challenges for the couple; for example, how long ago did the second marriage occur? Do the spouses each have approximately the same net worth or is there a large discrepancy between them? Does one spouse have a prenuptial or marital agreement from his or her prior marriage (or a divorce decree with special provisions)? Do the spouses have children from their prior marriages?” explained Ron Feinman, Esq., principal at Virginia Elder Law, PLC. “These and other considerations create challenges that an experienced trusts and estates attorney can help the couple navigate, often providing solutions not evident at first.”

The Importance of Open Communication
Open and honest communication is the cornerstone of effective estate planning for blended families. Early discussions can help mitigate misunderstandings and resentment later on. While such conversations may be uncomfortable, addressing these topics upfront can lead to a more harmonious outcome.

“People should be very intentional about estate planning, particularly those with blended families,” advised Peter Davies, estate planning attorney with Davies & Davies. “I would also encourage transparency. As I tell blended family clients whose family members all get along, ‘We don’t want to create conflict where none presently exists.’ Good communication can go a long way in mitigating trouble down the road.

Creating a Comprehensive Estate Plan
“Intestacy [what happens when someone dies without a will] is nearly always contrary to what blended family clients want,” furthered Davies. “An estate plan should be implemented so clients can be assured that their intended beneficiaries receive what the clients want them to. Due to statutory defaults…clients may want to make sure documents are in place to supersede those statutory defaults so the client can have their intended decision maker in place.”

A well-crafted estate plan should encompass several key documents and considerations tailored to the unique needs of a blended family. First and foremost, a will is essential. It allows the individual to specify how assets will be distributed upon death. In blended families, it is particularly important to clearly identify beneficiaries and articulate intentions regarding both biological and stepchildren. Without a will, state laws will dictate asset distribution, which may not align with the deceased’s wishes.

In addition to a will, other estate planning tools, such as trusts, can offer flexibility and protection.

“Here, the trust is vital,” continued Robert W. Haley, Certified Elder Law Attorney and Managing Attorney of The Estate & Elder Law Centers of Central and Southside Virginia. “I have seen countless cases where a spouse dies, and the survivor is back in my office, even before the funeral, to change the will, as they ‘never liked his or her kids.’ A well-drafted trust can ensure all children are treated fairly and in the manner the couple decided without the risk of changes made at the death of the first spouse.”

Addressing Tax Implications
Blended families must also consider the tax implications associated with estate planning. The transfer of assets upon death can trigger estate taxes, depending on the value of the estate. Proper planning can help mitigate these tax burdens. For instance, gifting strategies can allow individuals to transfer wealth during their lifetime, potentially reducing the taxable estate. Consulting with a financial advisor or estate planning attorney who specializes in blended families can help navigate these complexities and ensure that all tax implications are accounted for in the planning process.

Establishing Powers of Attorney and Health Care Directives
Beyond asset distribution, estate planning for blended families should also encompass powers of attorney and health care directives. These documents allow individuals to appoint someone to make financial or medical decisions on their behalf in the event they become incapacitated. In blended families, it is essential to clearly define these roles to avoid potential conflicts and misunderstandings.

“Once you have got your estate plan in place, do not run the risk of your [power of attorney] agent having ‘hot’ powers that could wreck your planning,” said Haley. “If your agent has the power to name or change beneficiaries, then all your planning could be ruined! Here, you might consider appointing an independent fiduciary to act as your agent.”

The Role of Professional Guidance
Given the complexities involved in estate planning for blended families, seeking professional guidance can prove invaluable. Estate planning attorneys can offer tailored solutions, ensuring that the family’s unique needs are addressed. Additionally, financial advisors can provide insights into tax implications and help develop strategies for managing and distributing assets effectively. Working with professionals can also lend a sense of legitimacy and structure to family discussions, helping to facilitate a smoother planning process.

ASK THE EXPERT

What are the most common misconceptions blended families have about estate planning?

“In my practice most blended couples come to our initial meeting concerned with only one or two issues. They are often surprised when they discover the many complexities they may face. Other times couples have talked with friends or researched the internet and come with a solution in hand; they are surprised when they discover other options might actually better address their concerns. Sometimes a couple initially tells me they are concerned about one issue, but then, after further discussion, we uncover another, more fundamental issue is actually at play; this opens up other planning options and avenues for the couple and provides a better long term solution as it addresses what is really important to them.”
– Ron Feinman, Esq., principal at Virginia Elder Law, PLC

We are proud to announce the 2024 Lynchburg Living Community Champions—a group of dedicated individuals whose unwavering commitment to advocacy and service has significantly enhanced our community.

These champions work both within organizations and directly in the community to support vulnerable populations, providing essential resources and support to those in need. Their tireless efforts and selfless dedication exemplify the spirit of community engagement, making a profound impact on the lives of many.

We honor their contributions and celebrate their role in fostering a more inclusive and compassionate environment for all residents of Lynchburg. Their work inspires us all to join in the effort to create lasting positive change in our community.

Joe Girandola

Joe Girandola
Horizon Behavioral Health Project Director – Grant to Benefit Homeless Individuals

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

Through perspective and life experiences, I’ve always had a personal disposition toward helping people in need, which evolved into academic and professional pursuits over the years. I’ve continued to develop this mindset, and I can recall specifically when it gave life to a principle I hold dear, “If not you, then who?” Later in my journey, I developed another motto: Just show up. These words often inspire me to do the things I can do for people or volunteer when opportunities present, and they push me to challenge myself.

Can you describe the primary causes or initiatives you are passionate about? Are there specific issues or populations you are most dedicated to supporting? My work primarily focuses on populations experiencing disparate access to resources, such as youth or other vulnerable populations. Currently, alongside many other champions and organizations, I work with youth and families experiencing homelessness.

How do you think others can get involved or contribute to the causes you are passionate about? Many local champions for the community thrive off the generous giving of time and resources. To get involved, a person simply needs to ask, i.e., call a local organization whose mission you’d like to support, and they will provide guidance on how to get involved. Just show up.

In what ways can local businesses, organizations, or individuals better support community efforts? Any time a local business, organization, or individual gets involved to support the community the immediate and downstream positive impact can be overwhelming, even for just one person whose life circumstance significantly improves. To that end, simply start somewhere: if you have time, housing, work opportunities, or other resources, make those known by connecting with the agencies and individuals who serve to funnel these to people in need. The most important thing is to start somewhere.

Kristin Marsti

Kristin Marstin
Central Virginia Regional Rescue (CVRR) Volunteer / TNR Program Manager

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

My journey into community service began with a profound passion for animals. It started when I volunteered at a local shelter, where I was deeply moved by the stories of homeless animals. Witnessing their resilience and the difference compassionate care made sparked a commitment within me. The experience ignited a broader sense of responsibility to help those in need, leading me to explore various avenues of philanthropy. What began with a love for animals evolved into a lifelong dedication to community service, driven by the belief that every act of kindness, big or small, can make a meaningful impact.

Can you describe the primary causes or initiatives you are passionate about? Are there specific issues or populations you are most dedicated to supporting? I am deeply passionate about helping stray, homeless cats through TNR (Trap-Neuter-Return). TNR helps reduce overpopulation, ensures healthier colonies, provides vulnerable kittens with a chance for a better life, and reduces both overcrowding and euthanasia in shelters. My commitment to these animals and those who care for them fuels my drive to create lasting, impactful change.

What have been the most impactful moments or achievements in your community work? Is there a particular experience or accomplishment that stands out? One moment that will always stay with me is rescuing a kitten out of a storm drain manhole at Kroger here in Lynchburg; the community really came together to save that kitten. Employees of Kroger, my friend Shannon, and passerby all pitched in and cheered me on to help rescue this little kitten. I fostered the scared little kitten through CVRR and named her after the Kroger employee who first saw/heard the kitten and reached out for help—Bayley. Several weeks after her rescue, Bayley was then adopted by a manager from Kroger. Being a part of a rescue that brought the community together and had a happy ending really sticks with me.

Kaleb Gay

Kaleb Gay
Love LYH Market/Punk Rock Flea Market Lynchburg Coordinator & Curator

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

Our Market was born out of necessity: a desire for grassroots (wild, pollinating spaces) and free in every sense of the word. Our market fee is always sliding scale/negotiable—we want anyone who would like to participate to be able to do so.

Can you describe the primary causes or initiatives you are passionate about? Are there specific issues or populations you are most dedicated to supporting? Punk Rock Flea Market Lynchburg is about true community and the possibility of making a connection and some extra money through expression of self. Good for the whole soul (and in this economy)!

What have been the most impactful moments or achievements in your community work? Is there a particular experience or accomplishment that stands out? Over the five years that this project has been growing, we have had all ages and types of folks set up with us. If you feel comforted even for just a few moments, it is a victory in my eyes. The LoveLYH Market is a glimpse at wholeness within our pocket of the world. “Tend to the part of the garden you can touch,” says Jack Kornfield.

How do you think others can get involved or contribute to the causes you are passionate about? Going forward I would love to see more youth/children art. Speaking as the curious child in myself (“the creative adult is the child that survived”) I know the feeling that is kindled when something I made is enjoyed by another person. That connection is as pure as any I can think of.

Any final thoughts or messages you’d like to share with the community? The Market is a project of love—and it has so much potential.

Nathaniel X. Marshall

Nathaniel X. Marshall
BWX Technologies, Inc. Community Engagement Specialist

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

I became involved in a number of on-campus activities while at Lynchburg College, now the University of Lynchburg. After graduation and upon getting a job at BWXT, I found that I had some time on my hands to give back to the community. I decided to volunteer as a Big Brother with the Big Brothers Big Sisters Program. My community engagement took off from there.

What organizations or projects are you currently involved with? In what capacity do you work with these organizations? These are a few of my current activities: University of Lynchburg Board of Trustee (former Chair); United Way of Central Virginia volunteer (former chair and campaign chair); Virginia Board of Workforce Development board member (former Chair); Regional Workforce Investment Board board member (current Chair); Interfaith Outreach Association board member (current Chair); Vector Space board member, Salvation Army board member; Iron Lives, Inc. board member, Lynchburg Area Center for Independent Living (LACIL) board member (current Chair); CVCC member of various committees (former Chair of Local Board); Roads to Recovery board member. And then there is LAYSi – Lynchburg Area Youth Sports Initiative! It has been one of the best groups that I have been associated with for bringing businesses, non-profits, universities, colleges, schools, sororities, fraternities, teams, students, and volunteers together for a common cause.

What have been the most impactful moments or achievements in your community work? Is there a particular experience or accomplishment that stands out? Through my various volunteer opportunities, I have met and shook hands with President Obama; discussed workforce issues with state leaders from across the country; worked with the last 5 governors of Virginia on workforce issues; sat at the table with presidents of state and private universities to discuss training needs. That’s pretty good for an old Bedford County kid.

How do you think others can get involved or contribute to the causes you are passionate about? Raise their hand! And show up – more than once!

Sarah Quarantotto

Sarah Quarantotto
Miriam’s House Executive Director

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

As a child I was always inspired by the stories of incredible individuals like Martin Luther King, Jr. and Mother Theresa who gave so much of themselves to improve the world around them. While I knew that my story would not be quite as grand, I also knew that I wanted the story of my life to reflect one of service to others. When selecting an education and career path, the field of social work really resonated with my values and I have loved being a social worker throughout my career.

Can you describe the primary causes or initiatives you are passionate about? Are there specific issues or populations you are most dedicated to supporting? Early in my career I worked in community mental health with low-income families but quickly realized that it was very challenging for a household to focus on their mental health when their basic needs were not being met. Switching from a primary focus in my career from mental health to basic needs like housing has been incredibly fulfilling as this is the very foundation to an individual’s, families’ and community’s wellbeing.

What have been the most impactful moments or achievements in your community work? I am really proud of the ways I have led the growth and expansion of Miriam’s House over the past decade. Growing from an agency that served less than 50 people experiencing homelessness a year to now serving over 500 has required a great deal of commitment and partnership from our staff, board, volunteers, donors and partners and I am really proud to have led this effort.

How do you think others can get involved or contribute to the causes you are passionate about? It has been so encouraging to see the variety of ways individuals have contributed to ending homelessness in this community. From landlord partners who have provided our families with a second or third chance at housing, to local employers who have provided job opportunities for single moms trying to support their families, to individuals who contribute small monthly amounts to support our mission, to volunteers who make Miriam’s House welcoming to those who live here.

Mark Dalton

Mark Dalton
Terry Volkswagen Subaru General Manager

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

At Terry, Inc., giving back has always been part of our DNA. Working alongside the team, especially in partnership with Subaru of America, has inspired me to embrace the importance of paying it forward. Their unwavering commitment to the community reminds me that success transcends business—it’s about making a real difference in the lives of others. I feel privileged to have the resources and support to contribute, and I take that responsibility to heart.

Can you describe the primary causes or initiatives you are passionate about? At Terry, I’ve found a strong commitment to supporting youth and pets in need, which aligns perfectly with my own values. Through Subaru’s Love Promise initiative, we give back monthly and take pride in participating in events like youth turkey and duck hunts and technical center partnerships. These initiatives not only create growth opportunities but also ensure we’re making a difference in the lives of vulnerable groups. Being part of a company that prioritizes these values inspires me to contribute even more to our community.

What have been the most impactful moments or achievements in your community work? One of our most impactful initiatives has been partnering with the Campbell County Technical Center. Each year, we host students at Terry, Inc., offering them hands-on experience in the automotive industry. Over the years, several students have transitioned into full-time employees, which speaks to the success of the program. Watching them grow from students to professionals has been incredibly rewarding and reinforces our commitment to youth empowerment and workforce development.

Additionally, through our work with Subaru’s Love Promise, we’ve made a difference by supporting organizations like the Lynchburg Humane Society, Meals on Wheels, and local schools. These partnerships have allowed us to stay connected to the community, contribute to causes that matter, and give back in ways that positively impact lives.

How do you think others can get involved or contribute to the causes you are passionate about? Volunteering time can make a huge impact. Organizations like Meals on Wheels and the Lynchburg Humane Society always need help. Even a few hours of your time can contribute meaningfully and strengthen the community.

Bishop S.Y. Younger. Photo courtesy of Bishop Younger.

Bishop S.Y. Younger
The Ramp Church International Senior Pastor

What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

My philanthropic inspiration has to be my mother and grandmother. We didn’t have a lot of worldly possessions but whatever we had they were more than willing to share it. I watched my mother take a plastic bag and go through our cabinets to give a lady in the neighborhood food for dinner. My grandmother took care of other people’s children while the parents got on their feet. The house was small and was already filled to capacity, but she and grandfather always had a way of squeezing one more.

Can you describe the primary causes or initiatives you are passionate about? I often feel that my heart is pulled into so many directions that I get overwhelmed. I’m learning to serve what’s in front of me. Recently I discovered that the City of Lynchburg had a homeless bed deficit. I’ll be honest I tried to look away hoping that someone else would pick up this torch, but I couldn’t ignore the need. I shared with my church that the mandate to take care of the homeless is a core value of our Christian faith. Our own Savior was faced with a similar problem at his birth. Our church along with other local churches will be partnering together opening the Refuge on Memorial this December. This facility will house the unsheltered in our city.

How do you think others can get involved or contribute to the causes you are passionate about? With all of our initiatives we’re always open to collaboration and partnership with like-minded people and organizations. Contributions are always needed but the contributions do not always have to be monetary. There are individuals who may be willing to contribute time. Anyone interested can go to our website www.therampchurch.com for the Refuge on Memorial and they can go to bishopyounger.com for the B. Younger Academy in Pakistan.

How do you stay motivated and energized in your work, especially during challenging times?

Doing nonprofit work while utilizing mostly volunteers with limited funds can be very exhausting. What keeps me energized and motivated is that I actually believe that I’m walking out a purpose that’s greater than me. I sincerely do not believe that any of us are successful until we have made someone else’s life better. When I start feeling overwhelmed, I stop and center myself. I remind myself of how far we have come and then rehearse the testimony of that journey.

By the time I’ve been considering those things I am quickly reminded that anything that I’ve accomplished is because God provided. I often say if it’s God’s will then it’s God’s bill.

Sarah E. Blankenship

Sarah E. Blankenship
Community Enthusiast
Organizations: Central Virginia Academy for Nonprofit Excellence (CVANE), Pierce Street Gateway & Pierce Street Community Garden, Literacy Advisors of Campbell County, LYH Nonprofits, Social Solutions

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

During my time at Bank of the James, I had the privilege of meeting Vickie Spencer, who selflessly dedicated herself to serving her community. She was a great inspiration to me and taught me the importance of contributing to meaningful causes, not just through financial support, but also through acts of service. My involvement in Leadership Lynchburg further fueled this passion, as it presented us with a community challenge and allowed us to brainstorm the best ways to address it. This is how the Pierce Street Community Garden came to fruition.

Can you describe the primary causes or initiatives you are passionate about?

Are there specific issues or populations you are most dedicated to supporting? I am deeply committed to breaking down barriers in our community. Issues such as food insecurity, job preparedness, and financial wellness not only impact individuals directly but also hinder our entire community from reaching its full potential.

What have been the most impactful moments or achievements in your community work? Is there a particular experience or accomplishment that stands out? The most significant accomplishment in my endeavors thus far has been the establishment of the Pierce Street Community Garden. As a member of Leadership Lynchburg Class 45, our team was tasked with addressing food insecurity. Leveraging our diverse skill sets, we conducted thorough research on the issue and developed viable solutions. Through engagements with various non-profit organizations, we identified a substantial food desert within the Pierce Street Historic Renaissance District characterized by inadequate access to fresh produce, limited transportation, and the absence of nearby grocery stores. To address this issue, our team, known as Big Hearts, collaborated with Pierce Street Gateway to construct a raised bed garden on their premises. Our garden’s dimensions and design were informed by research into Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) recommendations for raised bed gardens. By partnering with local establishments such as Lowe’s in Madison Heights and JMJ, The Landscape Supply Center, we managed to construct the garden without incurring any out-of-pocket expenses. Engaging with the local community enabled us to ascertain their produce preferences, and subsequently, we collaborated with Lynchburg Grows to acquire the appropriate seeds. The success of this project has been made possible through the contributions of numerous organizations, which continue to support the initiative to this day.

How do you think others can get involved or contribute to the causes you are passionate about? I strongly encourage anyone with the desire and capacity to make a difference to take action. There is no greater satisfaction than giving without expecting anything in return. SHARE Greater Lynchburg provides a valuable directory of nonprofit organizations, their requirements, upcoming events, and additional information. If you are considering getting involved,
I recommend starting by exploring their resources.

Dr. Mason Bates

Dr. Mason Bates
Bates Family Orthodontics
Orthodontist / Owner

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

From its inception, Bates Family Orthodontics has been committed to building lasting relationships that allow our team to love, serve, empower, and impact our community. I consider it both an obligation and a calling to give back to the wonderful community that not only supports my practice, but also that I am raising my family in. I once heard a speaker say in regards to living generously, “we are meant to be rivers, not reservoirs.” That stuck with me and I decided that no matter where I was at in my career, I would strive to operate from a position of constantly flowing generosity towards my community.

Can you describe the primary causes or initiatives you are passionate about? Are there specific issues or populations you are most dedicated to supporting? Several areas that I am particularly passionate about are: youth ministry/mentorship, helping those who are lacking in resources, oral hygiene/dental health education, and preventing/ending human trafficking.

What have been the most impactful moments or achievements in your community work? Is there a particular experience or accomplishment that stands out? The leadership of Park View Community Mission and I have been working on an Oral Health Initiative which would incorporate dental hygiene items into their already established Food for Thought program. Unfortunately, many children in our local community do not have access to essential dental hygiene products (toothbrush, toothpaste, floss, etc.), placing them at a significant disadvantage in maintaining good oral health. This is partly because the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) does not cover hygiene items, and the price of these items has increased. This contributes to an increased risk for dental problems (early childhood caries, early loss of teeth, etc.) that can detriment the overall well-being of these children (psychosocial problems, inability to focus on learning due to pain, negative perception by peers, etc.).

How do you stay motivated and energized in your work, especially during challenging times? Passion. I love what I do. I’ve also got a pretty great support system in my family, my team at work, and my friends which certainly helps.

It’s important to be honest and lean on those around you for encouragement or help when it’s needed. We aren’t meant to operate alone.

Blake Bryant

Blake Bryant
Puzzled Car Shows/Puzzled Events CEO/Founder

How did your journey of community service/philanthropy begin? What inspired you to start giving back to your community?

My wife, Andrea Bryant, and my sister, Jennifer Bryant Foster, inspired me with all the good work they do and that made me want to do more.

What organizations or projects are you currently involved with? I am passionate about anything having to do with children and autism awareness. I am involved with Amazement Square, the Foster Foundation, and Puzzled Events. For the Foster Foundation and Amazement Square I am an advocate. I am the CEO of Puzzled Events.

What have been the most impactful moments or achievements in your community work? Is there a particular experience or accomplishment that stands out? I’ve won lots of awards, been on the cover of magazines, and been on multiple media platforms, but none of that is as rewarding as seeing the smiles on the children’s faces that I have helped.

Who or what has been the biggest influence on your work in the community? Are there individuals, organizations, or experiences that have shaped your approach to service?

The biggest influences in my life have been my sister, Jennifer Bryant Foster, and my wife, Andrea Bryant. Seeing them give to the community has been the spark that I needed to begin giving back to the community.

How do you think others can get involved or contribute to the causes you are passionate about? Others can help by volunteering and offering a hand to a child in need.

How do you stay motivated and energized in your work, especially during challenging times? Whenever I get down, I think about the children I am helping and that helps me to keep going.

Any final thoughts or messages you’d like to share with the community? Children on the autism spectrum struggle everyday. We all can take some of their struggle away by offering a helping hand to them.

New Bar & Music Hall

By: Christian Shields | Photos by: Ashlee Glen

Less than a year after opening Trading Post by Traber Ranch in downtown Lynchburg, the Traber family has expanded the business through several new additions.

Located at 1222 Main St., the Trading Post provides locals with a selection of coffees, convenience store items, and specialty meats. This past summer, the Trabers opened the Trading Post Speakeasy below the Trading Post.

This 6,000-square-foot space includes a full bar and offers a variety of shareable plates and appetizers.

It also features five large screen televisions for sporting events as well as multiple pool tables and darts lanes.

Melanie Traber, who owns the business along with her husband Peter, noted that the location’s open space sets it apart from other bars in the area and provides customers with much more space for activities outside of solely grabbing a drink and a bite to eat. In addition, the speakeasy offers a much more casual feel than is typically found at restaurants.

“There isn’t a lot to do downtown as far as activities, so it’s nice to have a place where you can come and hang out with your friends, play pool or play a game of darts, and not just go to a restaurant,” Melanie said. “If you go to a restaurant, you sit down, and the bills come and they’re pushing you out. So, it’s a good place to hang out and relax.”

In an effort to cater to college students and other patrons who may not drink alcohol, the site offers a wide selection of “mocktails,” kombucha, mushroom-based elixirs and teas, and Olipop sodas.

“We really want our space to be a laid-back, enjoyable place for everyone, so we want to make sure that we encourage kids and adults who don’t want to drink alcohol to have plenty of options too,” Melanie Traber said.

This past October, Traber Ranch Music Hall also opened with an additional 6,000-square-foot space behind the Trading Post for live music and private events. This area boasts an extensive dinner menu, live music on a state-of-the-art stage with a tour-grade audio and lighting system, and weekly events such as karaoke and line dancing.

During the day, this space will be available for students to study, with Wi-Fi and charging outlets onsite to help them complete their assignments. As an added incentive to draw in the college crowd, the Traber family is currently running a promotion where for every $5 a student spends onsite, that student will be entered into a raffle, with three students receiving $500 scholarships at the end of the semester.

Because the Trading Post, Speakeasy, and Music Hall share one building and serve as complements to each other, guests are welcome to move freely throughout each spot. This allows customers to enjoy the best offerings of each without feeling confined to a specific space.

In addition to the main Trading Post entrance on Main St., customers can access the Speakeasy at 113 13th St. and the upstairs Music Hall through the patio entrance at 1222 Main Street.

From local events to new traditions you can start in your own home, there are many ways to enjoy and cherish this season.
Here are just a few (or 50!) ideas to get you started.

1. Visit Bright Nights in Downtown Lynchburg
Enjoy the festive light displays and holiday decorations throughout the downtown area.

2. Attend the Christmas Parade
Participate in Lynchburg’s annual Christmas parade, featuring floats, bands, and Santa Claus.

3. Shop at the Holiday Maker’s Market at the Academy Center of the Arts
Browse through local crafts, holiday gifts, and seasonal treats at this charming market.

4. Take a Scenic Winter Hike in the Blue Ridge Mountains
Enjoy the beauty of winter in the nearby Blue Ridge Mountains with a peaceful hike.

5. Ice Skating at the Ice at River Ridge
Spend a fun-filled day ice skating with family or friends at this popular local spot.

6. Attend a Christmas Concert at the Academy Center of the Arts
Enjoy holiday music performances ranging from classical to contemporary.

7. View the Decorated Historic Homes in Garland Hill
Take a self-guided tour of the beautifully decorated historic homes in Lynchburg’s Garland Hill neighborhood.

8. Attend the Christmas Tree Lighting at Craddock Terry
Welcome the holidays with the rest of the community at this treasured annual event

9. Bake Holiday Cookies with Family
Spend an afternoon baking and decorating festive cookies together.

10. Host a Holiday Movie Marathon
Gather loved ones for a cozy movie night featuring classic holiday films.

11. Participate in a Christmas Eve Luminary Event
Light up your neighborhood by participating in a luminary display.

12. Have a Hot Chocolate Bar
Set up a hot chocolate station with different toppings like marshmallows, peppermint sticks, and whipped cream.

13. Go Caroling in Your Neighborhood
Spread holiday cheer by singing carols with friends or family around your neighborhood.

14. Host a Gingerbread House Decorating Contest
Invite friends and family for a fun and competitive gingerbread house decorating session.

15. Create a Holiday Scrapbook
Document your favorite holiday memories and activities in a special scrapbook.

16. Volunteer at a Local Charity
Give back by volunteering your time at a food bank, shelter, or community event.

17. Organize a Secret Santa Gift Exchange
Arrange a fun and festive gift exchange with friends, family, or coworkers.

18. Make Homemade Holiday Cards
Craft personalized cards to send to loved ones, adding a special touch to your holiday greetings.

19. Attend Christmas at Avoca
Step into a winter wonderland of enchantment and joy as Avoca Victorian Mansion opens its doors for a heartwarming celebration of the season.

20. Visit Poplar Forest for Christmas Tours
Explore Thomas Jefferson’s retreat, decorated for the holidays with special tours and events.

21. Attend the Lynchburg Symphony Orchestra’s Holiday Concert
Enjoy a festive evening of holiday music with the Lynchburg Symphony Orchestra.

22. Take a Horse-Drawn Carriage Ride in Downtown Lynchburg
Experience the charm of the season with a scenic carriage ride through the city. Carriage rides are available during the Lynchburg Community Market’s Mistletoe Market season.

23. Enjoy a Christmas Tea at Ploughcroft Tea Room
Relax with a holiday-themed tea service. The Ploughcroft Tea Room will close for business on December 18 after an incredible 14 years in our community. They have become a pillar in Lynchburg’s downtown and will be missed.

24. Attend a Holiday Wine Tasting at a Local Vineyard
Sample seasonal wines and enjoy the festive atmosphere at a nearby vineyard. For a nearby experience, visit Reserve in downtown Lynchburg, or travel a bit further to visit Veritas Vineyards & Winery, including their walking lights display.

25. Take a Holiday Photo at Monument Terrace
Capture a memorable holiday photo with the iconic Monument Terrace as your backdrop.

26. Visit the Lynchburg Museum’s Holiday Exhibit
Learn about local holiday traditions and history at the museum’s seasonal exhibit.

27. Experience a Christmas Candlelight Service
Attend a traditional candlelight service at one of Lynchburg’s historic churches.

28. Go Sledding or Have a Snowball Fight
Enjoy a wintery day outdoors with some classic snowy fun. Fingers crossed for snow this year! If not, visit Snowflex or nearby Wintergreen.

29. Decorate the Christmas Tree Together
Make tree decorating a special family tradition.

30. Host a Holiday Potluck Dinner
Gather friends and family for a potluck with everyone bringing their favorite holiday dish.

31. Organize a Winter Scavenger Hunt
Create a list of holiday-themed items for a fun scavenger hunt around your home or neighborhood.

32. Go on a Winter Nature Walk
Explore the winter landscape and look for seasonal wildlife.

33. Create a DIY Advent Calendar
Make your own advent calendar filled with small treats or activities for each day. See opposite page for ideas.

34. Make a Holiday Playlist
Curate a playlist of your favorite holiday songs to enjoy throughout the season.

35. Have a Pajama Day with Holiday Activities
Spend a relaxing day at home in your pajamas, doing holiday crafts, and watching movies.

36. Attend a Holiday-Themed Workshop at Vector Space
Join a community makerspace for a creative holiday project.

37. Make Handmade Ornaments
Create personalized ornaments to decorate the tree or give as gifts.

38. Host a Holiday Game Night
Play festive games with family or friends.

39. Make and Deliver Holiday Treats to Neighbors
Spread goodwill by sharing homemade treats with your neighbors.

40. Go for a Drive to See Christmas Lights
Take a leisurely drive through Lynchburg to admire the best holiday light displays. Keep an eye on Living in Lynchburg and Lynchburg Macaroni Kids for an updated listing of houses.

41. Host a Virtual Holiday Gathering
Connect with distant loved ones through a festive online celebration.

42. Reflect on the Season with Gratitude Journaling
Take time to write down what you’re thankful for and cherish the season’s moments.

43. Attend the Celebration of Lights at Riverside Park
Keep an eye on the Lynchburg Parks and Recreation’s social media for specific walking-only nights. Otherwise, cars are allowed at any time.

44. Have a Cozy Night in with Holiday Books
Spend an evening reading holiday-themed books with hot cocoa.

45. Attend a Holiday Cooking Class
Learn how to prepare a special holiday dish at a Flour District Cooking Class.

46. Start a Yule Log Tradition
Craft your own with foraged materials or try your hand at baking one (recipe on page 119).

47. Attend a Community Hanukkah Celebration
Check out local synagogues or community centers for events featuring music, games, and menorah lightings to celebrate the Festival of Lights together.

48. Host a Winter Solstice Celebration
Embrace the longest night of the year by gathering friends for a cozy evening of storytelling, reflecting on the past year, and sharing hopes for the future.

49. Create a New Year’s Reflection Ritual
As the year ends, set aside time for family or friends to share their highlights and challenges of the past year and intentions for the year ahead, perhaps while enjoying a festive meal or treats.

50. Visit Mistletoe Market
Enjoy a cozy morning at the Lynchburg Community Market during their Mistletoe Market season. Special seasonal vendors will be present alongside the market’s regulars.

The Perfect Yule Log Cake

By: Mikael Blido | Photos by: Ashlee Glen

Every holiday season, I look forward to indulging in delicious traditions, and one dessert that never fails to impress is the Yule log cake. Also known as Bûche de Noël, this cake has its origins in an ancient European tradition where families would burn a large log during the winter solstice as a symbol of protection and warmth.

As fireplaces became less common, the tradition transformed, leading 19th-century French pastry chefs to create a dessert version of the log. This rolled sponge cake, often filled with buttercream or whipped cream and covered in chocolate ganache, quickly became a holiday centerpiece.
In this recipe, I’m using a delicious caramel cream. For a more striking effect, you can deepen the filling’s color by adding two teaspoons of cocoa powder to mimic the rings of a tree.

While this cake might seem daunting, it’s more manageable than it appears—especially if you master the key step of “training” the sponge using a damp tea towel. Rolling the warm cake in the towel sets its shape without cracking, ensuring a beautiful spiral when filled. The addition of meringue mushrooms and a chocolate crumble “forest floor” is optional, but it adds a touch of whimsy and elevates the presentation for special occasions.

Caramel Yule Log with Meringue Mushrooms & Chocolate Crumbles

Serves: 10 to 12
Time: 6 1/2 hours, plus 4 hours cooling

Ingredients
Meringue Mushrooms
3 large egg whites
1/4 teaspoon cream of tartar
Pinch of salt
2/3 cup granulated sugar

Chocolate Forest Floor
6 tablespoons unsalted butter,
cut into 1/2-inch pieces
2 ounces bittersweet chocolate, chopped
1 cup all-purpose flour
1/2 cup dark brown sugar
1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/4 cup toasted, ground pistachios (optional)

Filling
2 cups heavy cream
3/4 cup granulated sugar
1/4 cup water
1 tablespoon light corn syrup
4 ounces cream cheese

Cake
1 1/3 cups cake flour
3/4 cup granulated sugar
1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
5 large eggs, separated
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1/4 cup water
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1/4 teaspoon cream of tartar

Ganache Tree Bark
3/4 cup heavy cream
6 ounces bittersweet chocolate, chopped
2 teaspoons light corn syrup
Confectioners’ sugar (optional)

Instructions
1. For the Meringue Mushrooms: Preheat the oven to 200°F. Draw mushroom cap shapes on parchment paper and place the paper, pencil side down, on baking sheets. In a stand mixer, whip egg whites until foamy. Add cream of tartar and salt, then gradually incorporate sugar. Continue whipping until stiff peaks form. Pipe meringue caps and stems onto parchment. Bake for 2 hours, then turn off the oven and let the meringues dry for an additional
30 minutes. Store in an airtight container.

2. For the Chocolate Forest Floor: Preheat oven to 350°F. Combine butter and chocolate, melt together, then stir in the remaining ingredients. Crumble the dough onto a lined baking sheet and bake for 15 minutes, stirring halfway through. Let cool completely before using.

3. For the Filling: Heat 1 cup of cream in a saucepan. In a separate pot, bring sugar, water, and corn syrup to a boil and cook until deep golden brown. Gradually whisk in the hot cream and add the cream cheese. Cool to room temperature, then chill for at least 3 hours before whipping. Whip on high speed for 1 1/2 to 2 minutes, until the mixture becomes thick and fluffy, like buttercream frosting.

4. For the Cake: Preheat oven to 350°F. Grease and line a baking sheet with parchment. In a bowl, whisk together flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt.
In another bowl, combine egg yolks, oil, water, and vanilla. Add the wet mixture to the dry ingredients. In a stand mixer, whip egg whites with cream of tartar until stiff. Gently fold egg whites into the batter, then spread onto the prepared baking sheet. Bake for 12-14 minutes. After baking, turn the cake onto a damp tea towel and roll gently to cool.

5. For the Ganache Tree Bark: Heat cream and pour over chopped chocolate and corn syrup. Let sit for a minute, then whisk until smooth. Let cool to a spreadable consistency.

6. Assembly: Unroll the cake and spread the whipped filling evenly. Re-roll the cake and chill for 20 minutes.
Cover the cake with ganache, using a fork to create bark-like texture. Decorate with meringue mushrooms and chocolate crumbles. Dust with confectioners’ sugar before serving if desired.