The Milams’ Craftsman Home Filled with Love, Laughter, and Good Food
By: Megan Williams | Photos By: Ashlee Glen
On a warm Spring Wednesday night, the red door on a cozy 1920’s Craftsman swings open. Warm light spills onto the porch and the sounds of a ruthless game of Clue pierce the otherwise quiet street. Amidst the squeals of a guess-gone-wrong, you hear chips clanking into a bowl, ready to be served alongside freshly made onion dip. If a neighborhood kid were to pass by at this moment, they’d surmise their own clue: Game night at the Milam’s is on and all are invited.
“If the red door is open, you’re welcome to come in,” said Hart Milam, who has lived in the charming one-and-a-half story home since 2019 alongside her husband Nick, their two children Wesley (11) and Cora (8), and their dog Mojo, who joined the family a few years after they moved in. “This is a very close-knit street. My kids are always included in neighborhood activities, and we always do the same.”
Hart and Nick met in 2012 while they were both living in DC. Neither had any intention of leaving the Northern Virginia area but a job opportunity relocated the Milams to Lynchburg in July of 2019.
“We had no intention to staying for more than a year and were actively seeking rental opportunities,” Hart recalled. “We decided that purchasing a home might be a better option because of the interest rates at the time. We did not like a single house we looked at, and we searched for about two months until I was told about our current home. It sat vacant, so I reached out to the owner in late September, and we walked through it the next day. Nick and I remained silent during the walkthrough with the owner, but as soon as we got in the car, we knew it was the house for us. We put the offer in, and it was officially ours in October 2019. It’s hard to believe it will be almost 6 years.”
Hart had always had an affinity for Craftsman-style homes, gravitating toward the timeless functionality that the homes have.
“I love the characteristics and charm,” she said. “When we were house hunting, we looked at a few homes for sale on Norfolk Avenue. Having lived in Washington, DC, then eventually when we lived in Winchester, and our suburb in Northern Virginia, I loved the ability to walk to restaurants and shops. When we were walking the sidewalks of Norfolk Avenue, knowing how convenient businesses on Rivermont are to the street, it was a no-brainer for me. I was determined to live on Norfolk.”
The Milams immediately got to work transforming the home into a space that worked for their family, and that would continue to work well as their children grew.
The original kitchen had a peninsula countertop that was, according to Hart, “perfectly workable and fine,” however the counter height was six-inches higher than standard height and needed to be adjusted. They were able to retain most of the overhead cabinets but renovated the base cabinets to a more accessible height.
“We renovated the kitchen with Ikea cabinets!” Hart said. “It took over 250 boxes being delivered to our home and a lot of manpower from our family to help build out. My father-in-law, Mike, would leave his day job as a pulmonologist to help Nick build cabinets after work. We subcontracted the work in the kitchen to gut, place tile, but the rest of it was a lot of DIY. We had moving boxes everywhere in the middle of renovations, refinishing floors, building kitchen cabinets, and we eventually moved in December 2019 with a lot of work still to be done. I was determined to have Christmas breakfast in our new home, so we had to have our granite countertops installed on Christmas Eve!”
For the Milams, the kitchen is the heart of their home and family. After Hart returns home from work, where she is in Admissions at Randolph College, just a three-minute walk away, she can be found in the kitchen, doling out snacks for her kids or assessing the ingredients in the fridge for dinner.
“Coming from a strong Filipino and Italian background, I was taught not to waste,” she said.
“If all you have is rice and eggs, in Asian culture, that’s a meal in and of itself.”
Go-to meals on busy weeknights while the Milams navigate work schedules, their daughter’s dance practice schedule, and both children’s lacrosse schedules include pasta, salmon rice bowls, and even charcuterie platters where the kids can graze while catching up on homework after a practice.
“I try to incorporate as many of the same ingredients as possible across the week to avoid waste. But if I walk by a full lobster tank at the Boonsboro Kroger, I will make an impulse purchase for lobster rolls,” she laughed.
While the Milams keep meals simple during weeknights, Hart will go over the top for certain occasions or meals.
“One afternoon this winter, all of the neighborhood kids came in from playing outside. For snacks, I brought out the Brookstone S’mores Maker and they made s’mores in the dining room. Nick and I love to have people over, planned or unplanned—anywhere from pizza parties with the Ooni to me forcing everyone to watch Duke Basketball—and everyone knows we will always have some snacks or a cocktail waiting for you whenever you come over! I love to be a little over the top in parties and themes, and I’m so glad my family and friends indulge my sometimes-unhinged behavior,” she smiled. “Last year, I threw my daughter a [Taylor Swift] Eras themed birthday party complete with t-shirts, koozies, and a ‘merch table’ with glasses and tattoos!”
Hart and Nick’s children are front and center in their home, from the snacks they love to the hobbies they are cultivating. It’s a space of warmth, joy, and color, and it creates a beautiful background where their children can experiment and thrive.
The built-ins in the living room, original to the home, are brimming with family photos, assembled Lego projects, records their daughter is enjoying, and books that the kids can quickly grab and tuck into. It’s the home of a family who loves being together and loves to be at home.
“On a Saturday morning, Cora will wake up first and turn on the record player—usually Taylor Swift. That’s what we will wake up to,” Hart shared. “If it’s a warm morning, we will take out the flat top grill and make breakfast outside.”
The Milams’ home is more than just a place to live—it’s a hub of connection, creativity, and community. Whether it’s a spontaneous game night, a themed party, or simply sharing a quiet breakfast outdoors, Hart, Nick, and their children have built a space that reflects their love for each other and the neighborhood they’ve come to call home. It’s a place where the door is always open, and everyone is invited to join in the warmth and joy that fills their home.
